1. He is married. You see,when a man is engaged... He can't be your Mr right. Yes he might be attracted to you. Yes he might provide all your needs. Yes you think you love him. I'm sure he has promised to leave his wife. He must have told you times without number that she is fat,ugly and un-presentable. My dear, don't be fooled. Ask yourself. Why does he prefer to meet you @ hotels and bars? If he is going to leave her... Why can't he leave her before coming to you? Why is it so hard for him to pick your calls when he is @ home?? Dear,You are wasting your time. Of course he will tell you he loves you, YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT HE WANTS!!! Let's even assume that he does love you and he is serious. I hope you realise that you are trying to ruin some ones home, you are trying to take some ones man,You are trying to steal some ones father... Is it really worth it? Who knows, you might suffer the same fate later. You are beautiful,wonderfully made!!! Why waste it on a man who is totally clueless.
2. He hasn't discovered his purpose. You see, most men are defined by who they are and how much they earn. A man can not see you as a partner if he has not discovered his purpose. You have two options; you either help him discover his purpose or you move to men who have figured out what they really want. The only problem with helping him discover his purpose is that you might stop being his type. Let me give you an instance; you are both in school. Your faithful and loving. You help him achieve his goals. You are always there. He gets a good job and he is successful and then he realises that he can't take you out. You don't speak good English. You know why?! Don't get me wrong. I'm nt saying you can't keep him if you help him grow. I'll tell you...HOW in my next article
3. He doesn't believe nor fear God. Now tell me... Who will be his guardian? Who will he look up to? He doesn't fear God so he believes he can get away with anything. So please tell me... How will he respect you? Whether you believe it or not, its not your 'love' that'll keep the relationship/marriage going. I keep saying it "he has to fear God so that he can love you with the fear of God!
4. He makes you do things he would never let his sister do. I don't think I need to explain further
5. He over depends on you,financially,emotionally etc. Don't get me wrong, you need to be a proverbs 21 woman....virtuous,kind,independent and hard working but c'mon,get rid of that idea that you have to always be the only one providing.
6.He has drug issues
7. He beats you up. You no b punching bag ooo... You are a woman! Yes I know he is always saying sorry and you love him! Mtschw...sidon there make hin kee you!!!
8. He gets jealous unnecessarily. When a man marries you, you become a possession like a chair in his house or his DVD set... Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying he won't value you... You've just become HIS!!! If he was unnecessarily jealous when you were going out...my sister, when una marry abeg no comot for house!!!
9. He's too controlling. Same thing as jealousy. Pay attention to the signs.
10. He doesn't listen to you nor value your opinion. A relationship is about two people... If he doesn't listen to you. My dear, you are not in a relationship
11. He's constantly forcing sex on you. Are you his woman or his lifeless sex toy??
12. He does not share your religious and moral beliefs. This will cause confusion in your family. What will your children do? Who will they follow? A mans god should be his wife's god too.
13. He doesn't protect you. He is not ready to defend you
14. He doesn't profess his love for you. He does not show you that he loves you. PLEASE don't confused Dps and PMs with love. He might use your picture as his DP all the time. It doesn't mean he loves you... For Gods sake, Grow up!!
15. You never disagree nor have arguments. That means somebody is pretending. And if its not you...its HIM! C'mon you are two different people...what do you expect?
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