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All characters were made up!
Mrs adams is it true that you murdered your husband in cold blood? Are you responsible for his death? Mrs adams answer us please...
 "My client will not answer further questions from the press, thank you very much! Mrs adams please let's proceed to the court room"
"I put it to you that the accused killed her husband out of jealousy and fear of being replaced by another woman"!
"Objection my lord"
 "Objection sustained"
"Thank you your honour". The facts placed in the court of law clearly shows that my client,mrs adams, is not guilty. Through the proceedings, we have seen that miss johnson is responsible for the death of mr adams. I hereby request that miss johnson be put on the stand for further questioning.
" Miss johnson, take the stand please"
The court clerk moved towards the witness box to put her to swear. " Are you a muslim or christian?"
"I am a christian"; miss johnson replied.
The clerk picked the holy bible and placed it on her hand.
"Please repeat after me; I, mention your name, swear to say the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth , so help me God"
" I, miss johnson benita, swear to say the truth,the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help me God".
" Miss johnson, where were you on the 3rd of july, 2011 at exactly 10pm?"
" I was on my way to Rittia hotel. I dint check in until 10:30 pm"
" You seem so sure! How are you so sure that you checked in by 10:30? Was it a plot? Did you know that I would be standing in this court of law asking you where you were?"
"Objection my lord", miss johnson's lawyer screamed.
" Objection over ruled ben, stop interrupting the proceeding"
"Thank you your honour, mrs adams lawyer continued. Please answer the question miss johnson."
"I dint do it! I would never kill anyone let alone kill the love of my life. I dint kill Habib. I dint do it"
"Miss johnson the evidence states otherwise. You murdered mr adams because he was going to leave you. He was ready to reconcile with his wife and mother of his child. He wanted to leave you. The evidence is right there in the letter the police found in your bag. He sent you that letter to break up with you. He even bought you a car and transferred 3 million naira into your account. The facts are there miss johnson! Your bank account! The 2010 toyota camry! Everything! You went to that hotel to revenge! He broke his promise to you we understand! But you took the law into your own hands. You shot mr adams two times in the head! You killed him"
Benita was confused, overwhelmed maybe. All she could do was cry. "I dint do it"
" Thank you your honour, no further questions"
" After examining the evidence, the jury finds mrs adams not guilt of the charge of murder. She is to be released immediately. The case is adjourned to the 15th of september,2011. Miss johnson is to be arrested immediately"
"Courts!!!"
" Congratulations mrs adams,you are a free woman. Now you can go and bury your husband in peace"
"Thank you rebort"


The D-day finally came. Habib was to be buried. Habib adams was a very hardworking, humble, quiet and youthful man. Oh he was rich too. He was the MD/ CEO of fin oil and gas. An exceptional entrepreneur. The envy of men his age. He met sarah in their university days. Sarah is a very beautiful women. Arguably the most beautiful in the faculty. She and habib became lovers and they got married 5years later. What a wonderful family. They had a girl. Some people say the child brought doom to the family. Some say habib just fell out of love. We can't really explain what went wrong. Habib met benita few months after the birth of little jully. They worked together for a while. A lot of people say habib fell for her and was even willing to leave sarah. Nobody really knows what happened... Nobody!!!!

"My husband oooo! Habib this was not how we planned it! Please come back"... She cried as she laid on her husbands corpse. She turned to her friends and family and said "please can you leave me alone with my husband for a while". They obeyed and left
She got up and wiped her tears. Bastard! Bastard!! Bastard!!! I told you! you'll either stay with me or die! How could you? I loved you with all my heart. Yes I gained baby weight, yes I gave you less attention. But was that enough reason to cheat with a girl half my age? Was it? Well she's gonna rot in prison! You wanted to run away with her? I saw your letter! Rittia hotel my ass!!! That bitch, clueless naïve bitch! No one takes what's mine!
 I'll see you in hell!!!!

To be continued

Desire, Auto suggestion and the subconscious mind

I will open this paragraph by 'noting' that you are what you think you are. Have you ever wondered if there is a relationship between your actions and your thoughts? Do you ever wonder why the things that happen to you happen? How can I connect my actions and my thoughts? If these questions and more have crossed your mind at any point in time, yes! You have come to the right blog!

 There is a verse in the bible that says; "As a man thinks, so he is! This is a prove that the concept of auto suggestion and the subconscious mind have been in existence for a long long time! It is 'no' news that the mind has a very important role to play in the achievement of all the goals/ plans that you have set out to achieve. The mind is a very powerful yet under-rated 'tool' which can make or mar any individual! Enough with the things we already know, let's go to the good stuff! 

DESIRE: It is not just enough to want something or want to do it, the un-dying craving to get it done or have it must always be present. The English dictionary relates desire with excitement. You have to be excited to do or have that thing, have a strong feeling about that thing you really wanna do. Napolean Hill in his book, "Think and grow rich" went in-depth on the explanation of desire (if you are interested, get the book). In conclusion, before anything can be done and DONE Effectively, desire has to be present! Most wealthy business men, directors of industries and the likes often state in their 'biographies' how they strongly desired to attain their levels! Henry ford is a very good example of a man who desired to achieve his goals, (the impossible) as they called it, and was persistent! I'm sure you are wondering why I'm going on and on about desire! In plain words, before you achieve something, you have to not just want it but desire it!

Subconscious mind: Any activity referred to as subconscious is an activity just below the level of awareness. It is believed that everybody has a mind of his/her own. There are somethings that you just do without thinking. Its more or less like your mind has programmed them. I will discuss more on the subconscious mind as soon as am done with auto suggestion. 

Auto suggestion: As the word implies,means automatic suggestion. Now, auto suggestion in the context of human beings is done by the subconscious mind. My concern is not how its done but how you can manipulate your thought/mind to auto suggest the achievement of your desire.  

 1. Praying: chill out, I'm not trying to get all spiritual on you! Lols! For those of us that do not doubt the existence of a supreme being who oversees our activities, we understand how effective praying is. But looking for the physical side of praying, when you pray, you state the things that you intend to achieve. While doing that, you unconsciously dictate to your mind. You tell your mind what you want and probably when you want it. 

The chain is pretty much like: praying ---» dictating to the subconscious mind ---» Desire ---» mind becomes aware of desire ---» mind auto suggests ---» brain processes ---» activity begins. 

 (Toyosi)  

Please note, praying alone doesn't guarantee success but its a good step forward.

2. Hard work: It is also not enough to desire or pray. Hard Work goes a long way...

3. Persistence: Don't give up!  

4. Patience: sometimes, all you have to do is wait for the right moment. Ability to wait is also very important.

In conclusion, you have to think positive to be positive!

Thank you for reading

I am olanrewaju toyosi

Missmodiva01@gmail.com

@motource

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Torn... 4

DISCLAIMER: All characters were made up

I fainted...
As I opened my eyes, I noticed I was wet! Kenny don use Water baff me finish. "Are you ok?" Kenny asked. "You just fainted like that, you almost hit your head on the chair",he said. "Shade!!! That name sounds familiar... I dunno, I Just blacked out", I said. "Maybe its just a coincidence, someone very significant from your past must bear that name I guess",kenny said. "Here, give me your hand, you really scared me ooo".
 I wasn't really bothered about kenny...shade, that was all I could think about... Shade. Kenny was so excited, he kept going on and on about the company he just bought. "Tell me about this shade",I said. Kenny explained that she is the wife of the former CEO who died in a car accident. He said the lady couldn't take the hit and she decided to sell off the company to settle loan sharks. "Poor woman, life must have been so hard on her", I thought. Kenny couldn't wait to share the good news with his brother. We both waited for him but he dint come home.
 The next morning, I heard the door bell. "Who is that?", I asked as I approached the door. "Morning nike, how was your night?",taiwo asked! "Wale, I mean taiwo, why dint you call that you weren't gonna come home?", I asked. He explained that has he was trying to leave the hospital, A woman in labour was rushed in so he had to attend to her. "Oh I was worried", I said as I held him tight! "Ohhhhh that body...chimoo na here I go die put",I thought to myself. To my surprise, Taiwo held me. He actually held me close! As in, he wrapped his hands round my waist! "Hehe my juju don dey work", I thought again. Na God say make I wear that orange nightwear wey show my bobby well well!!! Lols! "Why don't you go in and shower",I said as he walked towards his room.
  "Breakfast is ready", I yelled! Taiwo came out of his room with a rather strange look on his face. "What's wrong with you", I asked. "Nothing", that was his sharp response! "Nothing"!!!! I was about to give him the response he deserved when kenny hugged me from behind. "Good morning beautiful"! I dint even know when I start blushing like a fool! We all sat down to eat. No be say I Cook anything special ooo. For say I know, I for no cook rice n chicken. "Nike, pass me the 'dodo' please, I really like the taste" kenny said with a smile on his face. " No nike, I want it" taiwo said with a straight face. I was really confused because na only one 'dodo' remain. "Why do you always want what I want?", kenny asked. "What nonsense, this is my house, I own whatever is in it!". "Oh really, I'll just leave then", kenny said as he stormed out of the living room. I knew something was wrong. How can two blood brothers fight over dodo. Taiwo left the dinning table angrily too.
 Confusion was the order of the day. Dodo?! Two grown men?! What's going on?! I had to talk to one of them. I walked quietly to kenny's room. "Kenny, what's going on? I have never seem you this way", I asked. "Its taiwo. He always wants what I want. I guess he never thought I would still turn out like this. He was our parents favourite. Always the best in everything. The Mr know it all! He had everything! Everything. We attended baptist academy, where he chose to be in science class and I settled for Art. In our form 4, I met a girl, Nneka. That's her name. She is from the east but her mum is Yoruba. I was really planning to ask her out until I heard taiwo had. I was so angry! I confronted him, I begged him! Just that one thing...let me have just that one thing. He refused and said he liked her from the first day I took her to his class. I dint want to take her ooo. But she insisted! She was having problem with her further maths and I wasn't so good in maths. You should have seen the lust in his eyes when he met her. He stole her from me! That moron! Taiwo n I stopped talking and we denounced our brotherhood". "Twsch, I sighed! Because of a girl??!", I asked! " Not just any girl, the girl of my dreams. I watched my Brother date my girl. The worst part was that I dint even get the chance to tell her how I Felt before she died". "Ehen!!! Died? How? why?!",I cut in. " She was involved in an accident. Hit by a bus. She died in the hospital", he explained. I felt bad. Such a sad story. "I blame taiwo for her death! He caused it. He was standing at the other side of the Road n she was trying to cross the road to meet him!". "It wasn't his fault, it could have happened to anyone",I said. I thought he has changed. Apparently,I was wrong! I'm leaving... He picked his bags and left...

Breast cancer awareness: tips for preventing breast cancer.

The issue of breast cancer is just really overwhelming. Here are some tips to help prevent breast cancer.
1. Always do a self examination. It is very important to check yourself. Get familiar with your breast. Constant touching to check for lumps is adviced. If you discover any abnormalities, please consult your doctor.

2. Drink alot of water. Drink atleast 10 glasses of clean water every day.

3. If you have any family history of breast cancer, please go for check ups regularly.

4. Dont consume food with colouring, additives, preservatives and the likes.

5. Do not wear tighr bras with under wires.

6. Massage your breast daily. This helps to increase lymphatic drainage.

7. Install a tape filter. Chlorine enters the body through the skin.

8. Dry brush your skin daily with a natural skin brush in a circular motion toward the heart, emphasizing the areas where lymph nodes are concentrated, neck, shoulders, underarms, inner thighs etc.  Skin brushing in the morning can be more energizing than coffee.

9. Avoid holding stress and resentment in your body. Find healthy ways to relax and express yourself to eliminate stress. Emotional and personality make-up are large factors in attaining wellness. Love of life, love for oneself, and deep connections to others help us make healthier choices. Expressing emotions, even ‘negative’ ones, are a part of wellness

10.  Spirituality contributes to wellness. It means something different to each of us. It can be appreciation of our worth, uniqueness, and purpose. It can be to have faith, to love, to forgive, an/or to commune with nature

11.Take saunas, steam baths, herbal baths and wraps, and have massages as often as possible. These assist detoxification.

12. Do not use any harsh anti-perspirants, deodorants, soaps, detergents, lotion, make-up, hair dye, etc.  Every chemical you put on your skin enters your body, thus increasing detoxification requirements on your liver

13. To increase oxygen in your environment decorate with plants.  In highly polluted areas, use an air filter. Breathe deeply, exhaling through the nose. Aerobic exercise and yoga elevates oxygen in our cells. This is essential to good health.

14.  Chew food thoroughly and eat slowly, in a relaxed atmosphere. Smaller portions improve digestion while increasing the absorption of nutrients.

15.  Avoid constipation, without the use of over the counter laxatives, which can be dangerous. “In almost every case of breast cancer, a history of constipation can be demonstrated.” (Pelton) Plenty of water, fiber, fruit, and exercise are very helpful. Magnesium citrate helps stimulate peristalsis in the colon. If you must use a laxative, use an herbal one but only occasionally. If constipation is chronic and/or you want to expedite detoxification, consult a colon hydro-therapist.

16.  Exercise regularly. Women who exercise aerobically four hours a week have less disease and stress. Exercise, especially jumping on a trampoline, stimulates the movement of lymph thus facilitating drainage in the breast. Move your arms, swim, dance, walk, and do calisthenics
... join the fight against breast cancer.

Written by: olanrewaju toyosi
Email: missmodiva01@gmail.com
Twitter handle: @motource

Tips for having a clean and health vagina

1. Wash regularly. Wash your vagina atleast 3 times daily.
2. Avoid tight and uncomfortable panties. Tight panties reduce
the air space around the vagina which will inturn enhance the formation of bacteria around the vagina.
3. Wear cotton panties. Cotton panties are very good liquid absorbers. The vagina naturally produces some liquid substance from time to time. If the discharge is not absorbed properly, it starts to smell.
4. Avoid using strong vagina cleansers and perfumes.
5. Eat fruits especially pineapple. Pineapple will help enhance the vagina smell leaving a long lasting pineapple flavour.
6. Clean up after sex. Please always remember to wash your vagina after sex.
7. After using the toilet, wash your vagina from front to back to avoid transfering bacteria from the anus to the vagina.
8. Use health vagina care products.
If vagina odour persist, please see a doctor

TIPS TO ACHIEVING ACEDEMIC SUCCESS...

1. State your goals. It is very important to write down your expectations. Dont be double minded, you have to decide on the particular set of goals you intend to achieve.

2. Pray. i keep emphasizing that prayer is a very importsnt agent in your acedemic pursuit and other areas of life. Another factor that can aid your 'prayer life' is joining a reliable fellowship or islamic movement.

3. Minimize your social life.The university environment gives room for alot of social activities, getting carried away or lost in them might reduce your chances of acedemic excellence. learning to balance your social and acedemic life is very important .

4. Move with the right people. There is a popular saying that goes thus " show me your friends and ill tell you who you are". Moving with people who do not share your acedemic values will destroy your plans.

5. Be a loyal student. being respectful and loyal will take you far in life. its very important to associate with your lecturers.

6. Read your books religiously.

10 DO's and DON'T 's WHEN YOU MEET YOUR POTENTIAL MR RIGHT

1. Set your standards. Increase your price. You see, every girl has a price. Some girls its chicken and chip with pepsi,some girls its diamonds...some its serious fasting and prayer. You as a lady need to set your standards. Don't make them too high... You may chase him away. Don't make them too low... You may appear cheap. Carry yourself with poise!!!

2. Don't act so desperate for a serious relationship. Give it time!! All you need is a little patience. Just Go with the flow.

3. Don't give up your cookie. Don't have sex with him. Ladies attach a lot of emotion to sex...well most ladies. To us its the perfect avenue to show intimacy. But men on the other hand, don't see things like that. A man can have sex with a woman he does not love. So what's the hurry? Take your time dear

4.Don't call too often. Don't give too much attention. So he has told you how much he loves you and yes you believe. That's great!! Wonderful actually. But that's still not enough reason to call him every second. Show a little class!!! Let him chase you!

5. Pray about it. God is the most important factor. You have to build your relationship on a solid ground. Invite him to your life, your home, your relationship and let God choose for you.

6. Pay attention to the little signs. Pay attention. His little habits. Can your cope? Has he passed the ideal man test?( To be discussed in latter episodes). Wisdom is profitable to direct.

7. Don't fall for the early display of affection. He just met you and he is professing love! My dear, I'm sure its your beautiful backside he loves, your big bust. Let him see the other parts of you. Your charming personality, your sincere heart, all these interesting things about you. He has to fall in love with all that!!! Because whether you like it or not, you boobs may sag after 3 kids, your ass may no longer be attractive, Your flat tommy will stop being flat. So then, by that time what will he love? Think about it

8. Put your best foot forward. Be positive. Be confident. Be anything but lazy! Be you!

9. Look Good. Always!!! Always... Look good. You don't have to follow the trend. Get something that'll suit your body.

10.Sell yourself. Show him...all you can do. Declare yourself as an asset!!

Olanrewaju toyosi
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15 REASONS WHY HE IS NOT YOUR MR RIGHT

1. He is married. You see,when a man is engaged... He can't be your Mr right. Yes he might be attracted to you. Yes he might provide all your needs. Yes you think you love him. I'm sure he has promised to leave his wife. He must have told you times without number that she is fat,ugly and un-presentable. My dear, don't be fooled. Ask yourself. Why does he prefer to meet you @ hotels and bars? If he is going to leave her... Why can't he leave her before coming to you? Why is it so hard for him to pick your calls when he is @ home?? Dear,You are wasting your time. Of course he will tell you he loves you, YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT HE WANTS!!! Let's even assume that he does love you and he is serious. I hope you realise that you are trying to ruin some ones home, you are trying to take some ones man,You are trying to steal some ones father... Is it really worth it? Who knows, you might suffer the same fate later. You are beautiful,wonderfully made!!! Why waste it on a man who is totally clueless.

2. He hasn't discovered his purpose. You see, most men are defined by who they are and how much they earn. A man can not see you as a partner if he has not discovered his purpose. You have two options; you either help him discover his purpose or you move to men who have figured out what they really want. The only problem with helping him discover his purpose is that you might stop being his type. Let me give you an instance; you are both in school. Your faithful and loving. You help him achieve his goals. You are always there. He gets a good job and he is successful and then he realises that he can't take you out. You don't speak good English. You know why?! Don't get me wrong. I'm nt saying you can't keep him if you help him grow. I'll tell you...HOW in my next article

3. He doesn't believe nor fear God. Now tell me... Who will be his guardian? Who will he look up to? He doesn't fear God so he believes he can get away with anything. So please tell me... How will he respect you? Whether you believe it or not, its not your 'love' that'll keep the relationship/marriage going. I keep saying it "he has to fear God so that he can love you with the fear of God!

4. He makes you do things he would never let his sister do. I don't think I need to explain further

5. He over depends on you,financially,emotionally etc. Don't get me wrong, you need to be a proverbs 21 woman....virtuous,kind,independent and hard working but c'mon,get rid of that idea that you have to always be the only one providing.

6.He has drug issues

7. He beats you up. You no b punching bag ooo... You are a woman! Yes I know he is always saying sorry and you love him! Mtschw...sidon there make hin kee you!!!

8. He gets jealous unnecessarily. When a man marries you, you become a possession like a chair in his house or his DVD set... Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying he won't value you... You've just become HIS!!! If he was unnecessarily jealous when you were going out...my sister, when una marry abeg no comot for house!!!

9. He's too controlling. Same thing as jealousy. Pay attention to the signs.

10. He doesn't listen to you nor value your opinion. A relationship is about two people... If he doesn't listen to you. My dear, you are not in a relationship

11. He's constantly forcing sex on you. Are you his woman or his lifeless sex toy??

12. He does not share your religious and moral beliefs. This will cause confusion in your family. What will your children do? Who will they follow? A mans god should be his wife's god too.

13. He doesn't protect you. He is not ready to defend you

14. He doesn't profess his love for you. He does not show you that he loves you. PLEASE don't confused Dps and PMs with love. He might use your picture as his DP all the time. It doesn't mean he loves you... For Gods sake, Grow up!!

15. You never disagree nor have arguments. That means somebody is pretending. And if its not you...its HIM! C'mon you are two different people...what do you expect?

20 THINGS TO DO WHILE WAITING FOR MR RIGHT...

1.Develop a relationship with God. You need to improve on your spiritual life. This will not only portray you as a good person, it will improve your relationship with your maker.

2.Develop your cooking skills. It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his tommy. You need to familiarise yourself with the kitchen.

3.Develop your inter relationship with people. You have to learn to be people friendly. Learn how to start conversations and keep conversations going.

4.Create a list of all the qualities you want in your man. If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything. NB; try as much as possible to create a realistic list. Tall, dark, handsome, rich, God fearing, gentle etc… girl please, do you wanna marry Jesus?

5.Work on yourself. Do daily, weekly, monthly workout. You need to be fit. Understand you shape and work on it.

6.Be who you want to attract. If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman. Do not forget, you are who you attract.

7.Don’t look so desperate. Men can notice these things. Once you place yourself as being desperate, the tables will turn. He will notice this and may take advantage.

8.Be independent. Get a job. Do something with your life. Don’t just sit around waiting for mr right to come and pay all your bills. Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying he wont cater for you… but common… the man is not your father.

9.Always look good. Don’t forget that men are attracted by good looks. You need to get his attention with your looks before you can show your charming personality. NB; DON’T OVER DO IT. Tone down on the skimpy outfits. Do not show too much skin. Wear something that will say “I’m ready but not desperate”.

10.Know something about everything. You gatta be smart. Know something about what men like to talk about. Football, cars, sports in general, stock exchange, fashion, hair, music, movies… etc. who knows, mr right might be a movie lover.

11.Love yourself. Love your body, your skin, your attitude, love everything about yourself. Try and forget about your insecurities…

12.Develop self confidence. Self confidence is one of a woman’s best quality. Talk with confidence, walk with confidence… don’t be shy to express yourself. Note that confidence is not arrogance.

13.Carry yourself with poise and charisma. You are a lady. You have to walk like one.

14.Portray yourself has a wife material. You don’t have to say you are a good woman… make people say it for you. Be anything but lazy. You don’t have to fake it… practice makes perfect. Create the impression that you’ll be faithful, loyal and honest.

15.Always wear a smile. Whether you wanna believe it or not, your smile is your best asset. Work on the smile that fits your face. Don’t over do it please. Just learn to smile.

16.Don’t ever talk about your ex. EVER. You don’t wanna create the impression that men use and dump you.

17.Be beautiful. Do all you can to look attractive. Please, wearing make up is not a crime. Buy things that’ll improve your beauty.

18.Understand that you are beautiful as you are. I want you to know that there is somebody for everybody. Its ok to be dark… you don’t really need to bleach. Its ok to be short… just carry yourself with the needed charisma. Its ok to be chubby… just wear things that’ll compliment your shape. Its ok to be skinny… its really ok to be you

19.Be you. You need to understand that you have to be yourself

20.Be sociable. Go out… meet people. Go places… increase your options

My dear, you have to know that not all women will be wives. Determine what you wanna be NOW. He doesn’t have to be rich now… you should learn how to spot potentials. Help him grow. You also need to understand that you have to marry your friend.
Don’t forget to holla… girl talk

OLANREWAJU TOYOSI

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Missmodiva01@gmail.com

30 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE SAYING YES...

1. Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them.             

2. Elegance catches men's attention. but intelligence convinces them.

3. Nagging irritates men but 'constructive silence weakens them. 

4. The 'boy' in every man pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this, is a woman's truest maturity.

5. Men have secret struggles and silent pains. Should you ever find them out exhibit the greatest maturity. 

6. In the long-run your 'words' matters more to a man than your 'looks'... 

7. Earn a man's respect and he will consider you the yard stick 4 all his actions. 

8. Learn to mold the moods of your man. 

9.Men will naturally give u their futures if they can recall your maturity in yesterday's issues...

10. There is nothing like a perfect relationship. No one is perfect... NO ONE!!!! Learn to love your partners imperfection

11. No romance without sacrifice. It can't always be smooth...if it is...RUN!!!

12. Every man has a price. Find out what his price is...pay it!!! While doing that, do not forget that you have to name you standards from day 1. Tell him things you don't want, things you can't cope with. 

13. Don't engage in those random 'trust or love test'... You might loose!!! There is no need to set him up with your friend...my dear, she might shock you

14. Those who cheat and lie before marriage are most likely to continue to do so in marriage. 

15. If he doesn't love or honour God, He can't love or honour you! It is believed that men who fear God will love you with the fear of God.

16. What most lovers mistake for love is actually lust that will not last the test of time.

17. Time is the greatest test of Love...Learn to be patient!

18. The sooner we dump those who cheat and lie the better and happier we would be.

19. You may force a man to go out with you, but you cannot force him to love you.

20. Most men who beat women also cheat. if you are in that kind of situation...RUN!!!!!

21. A baby will not make him stay...don't even think about it!!

22. Never base your relationship on relationship quotes. You need to understand that men are different. You have to find out what works for you!

23. Once a cheater, always a cheater and once a liar, always a liar!!! Don't be fooled...

24. Destroy conceit and deceit or conceit and deceit will ruin you.

25. Wise men do not gossip about women. If he says bad things about his ex all the time, girl, you are in trouble! Because once he's done with you, your Next!!!! 

26. In the first instance, every man who approaches you has considered having sex with you,in his head...You have the power to determine if he stays for long or not! Don't forget- he has to earn the 'cookies'.

27. Never fall in love with a man who does not love you. NB: love grows. It takes time. 

28. The lust for money and sex is the ruin of all relationships. Be independent

29. You do not need money to win the heart of a woman or marry a woman who truly loves you.

30. You can lose all your possessions, but never give up your love

DADDY'S ANGEL........2

"It all started when my mother died!!...I was six years old and if I can remember clearly in primary two! Daddy found it hard to adjust to mums death! According to my grand mother, He loved her with all his heart! The 1st 3 years were ok. Dad and I got along just fine! Things were ok until he decided to bring another woman home! He said they met in one of his official trips to Dublin and that she's a good woman. Dad and aunty chi seemed like they were in love! They looked happy! The problem was that aunty chi dint really like me! She just hated me! My father never married her,I can't even remember him paying her bride price! If you ask me,I'll think all she wanted was my dads money! Fortunately for me, My dad found out about her attitude towards me and he sent her packing!"...she said
   "Wait wait wait!!!"...I cut her story short! "He sent her packing? Wow, that means he really loves you ooo!! Awwww!!! You are very lucky! But my dear, That's still not enough reason to say your daddy is your lover! Yes,I know that dads are usually their daughters first boo but that's not enough! You are a grown woman now! He needs companion too you knw"... I said! " Abeg free this man,Make we chop"... I yelled. I noticed princess wasn't really happy but then I wasn't ready to hear whatever she had to say. I thought about the possibility of princess sleeping with her father but then watin man eye never see?. I am just not ready to loose her nor her fathers money! Call me selfish...or whatever!! Man pikin must to survive! I tried to wipe princess' tears but she stopped me! "Don't you get what I'm trying to say??? Don't you?!"...she screamed and left the room angrily!
"How can she feel pain? How can she act as if its such a big deal?"... I thought to myself. I'm from a family of five. my father is a drunkard. I remember the time my mother was selling rice @ agboju bus stop,Lagos! We had to practically feed from hand to mouth! I can't count the number of CBD officers I had to sleep with to prevent them from chasing my mother away from her stand! You see,life is not fair and I have learnt to take advantage of the oppurtunities that come my way!
 Quickly I ran after her! "Princess!!"... I yelled!! I immediately caught up with her and held her hands! "Am sorry, I just dint want you to feel bad"...I said. She looked @ me and I could see the pain in her eyes! The same pain I felt when officer kanuni rapped me. The same pain I felt every time my father beats my mother Up. Pain!!!! The only feeling I have become too familiar with. "Please let's go inside before everybody starts staring at Us"...I said.
As we got to the room, I pulled her a chair. I knew exactly what she needed! "Daddy started coming to me wen I turned 13. I can still remember the 1st time like it was yesterday. He came to my Room that night and told me he wanted to show me something. He said he would turn me into a real woman. Because he is my father I dint object and things like that were new to me so I had to agree! He asked me to lay on my back and open my legs. I did! But then I got un-comfortable! I remembered the gist onome gave me! How she lost her virginity! It was the same thing daddy wanted me to do. Its not like I dint want to but then it felt weird. He told me to never tell anyone. That it was our little secret. I dint. It went on for years. I began to love it so much that sometimes I went to him. I mean, He promised to never leave me nor place anyone above me"
"HaaaAaaaaaaa!!! Mogbe....princess!!! Your father dis-virgined you and you still have the guts to say it! No wonder!!!!"... I screamed! " No wonder what??? Tell me...No wonder what!!!!"... She asked
TO BE CONTINUED!!!!!!

TORN........3

ed.
Its all coming back to me… you are him…I mean…his twin…I screamed.
Hello ma’am, yes its me… doctor wale asked me to surprise you today. Hi, I’m Kenny… wales twin brother. I smiled with so much excitement. “hello dear,its so nice to finally meet you” I said. We hugged and I asked him to come in. “unfortunately, wale isn’t around. He had to go for an emergency”… I explained. “yes am not surprised, that’s his thing”…he said. what can I offer you? I hope you American people can manage our foods and drinks here ooo because I prepared amala and efo elemi meje for you”… I said with so much excitement. “haaaaaa, you are just as he described; beautiful, warm and very homely”. “Don’t flatter me Kenny”… I said. We talked and laughed as I ushered him to the dinning table.
“ola, this is such a lovely meal…wow… I don’t think I have had this in years”…Kenny exclaimed. “thank you dear, I am glad you like it”… I said. Kenny and I instantly clicked. I mean, we became friends instantly. He said he had to relocate to Nigeria because he had to finally seal a deal he has been working on. “I have to meet with the MD/CEO tomorrow, we have a lot to discuss”… he said. I had no idea of what he was talking about but I had to flow in order to save myself the embarrassment. “you are welcome to stay here anytime dear”… then I thought to myself “why I dey talk like say na me get house ooo… person wey get house sef no toast me. I con dey do like madam…haaaaaaaa….”. I saw Kenny off to his room…
We lived together for about 8weeks… wale never for once stopped being so nice to me. At a point, I started wondering if he had feelings for me. If he found me attractive… I just kept wondering. My anxiety was cut short one hot Sunday afternoon. Wale and I returned from church. The service was wonderful. The pastor preached about love. “YOU HAVE TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER… SHOW CARE TO THE NEEDY… GIVE ARMS…” he ended the preaching by saying… hold your neighbor and tell him or her that you love him/her. I felt wales warm hands. He held me and said “ola, I love you”. I know you think I’m over reacting… but I know what I saw. I saw his eyes… his beautiful brown eyes, he stared at me with so much affection. I felt chills run down my spine… I felt it… I felt like he really did love me. On our way home, things were a bit awkward… he dint say a word to me. He just drove the car. When he finally decided to talk, all he said was… I think I’m ready to start bearing taiwo. I looked at him with so much confusion. why? “ why did you decide to change your name in the first place?”… I asked. “it’s a long story and I really don’t wanna talk about it”… he said.
We got home around 3 pm. The traffic in lagos is just crazy. We got in and wale…taiwo asked me to please get food. “I am so hungry ma”… he explained. “ok, give me 5minutes”… I said. I felt very relevant. I really felt like the madam of the house. I walked into the dinning room with taiwos food. He was topless. All he had on was the Ankara trouser he wore to church. “Shit… is this man really allowed to walk around lagos looking this hot? Is it not against the medical profession to look so hot… I mean, wont the patients feel intimidated with his body”… I thought to myself. Silly thoughts crossed my mind. I wanted to hold him, kiss his six parks. Oh shit… I need to have this man. I stared at him with so much desire… ohhhh lord jesus forgive me for fornicating in my mind on a Sunday. I don’t think he noticed me because he dint even say a word. “Why this man dey purnish me nah”… I thought to myself. “oh dear, this food smells delicious… I cant wait to eat you up… suck you till you come”… pls don’t blame me ooo… that was what I heard… so I decided to ask him again. “what did you say?”… he smiled and said.. “this food smells delicious… I cant wait to eat it”. I was beginning to hear things…
That Sunday marked the beginning of my undying desire for taiwo. I had to have him. Ohhhhhhhhh… I had to. The next morning, he went to work. I also decided to go shopping. I got all the sexy night gowns, dresses and bum shorts. Well, I had to seduce him. He got home around 10:49,I was counting every second. Immediately I heard the car horn, I sprayed my perfume and adjust my bra. “hello dear, how was your day?”… I collected his brief case and turned like I wanted to take it to his room. I dropped the case and pretended it was a mistake. My hip size is 40… yes, I have a big behind. I had to let him get a glimpse of it. I bent slowly as I picked the case. He dint even make any move. He just stood there and stared at me. “thank you dear, you seem happy today… what is the occasion?”… he asked. I thought to myself, “see me see wahala ooo… abi this man is impotent ni?”… “my day was just there I said and walk to my room with so much anger.
Days passed and I tried all I could to attract him. But none of them worked. It was like I was sexually invisible. He dint even notice me.so I decided to close the chapter.
One morning, Kenny came home with so much excitement. “Nike nike nike… come we need to celebrate”. “what are we celebrating oh”…I said. “I got the contract… they finally signed. I am now the new owner of that company I told you about”. “wooooow”… I screamed. “that’s great news, tell me all about it”… I said. “you know I told you they are having issues, the managering director mrs shade adeniyi lost her husband i a car crush and had to relocate to the states. I heard that the real owner got missing some months ago so the legal partners had no choice but to sell the company to settle debts”. “ shade shade shade”… the name clicked….no…. I fainted.

MISTRESS

Disclaimer....All characters were made up

I looked around me, everything seemed dead and lifeless. If a pin was dropped I would hear the sound. I wondered for minutes..."Is that all? Is it all I get?". Hot tears rolled down my eyes as I stared at the topless baby playing on the sand. "How did I get to this point in my life? What am I expected to do..." How did I become the woman who wants to take her life? "If I jump now, I might die and put an end to my misery! What will become of me? Do I really deserve to be fed to the fishes of the sea?'...I thought! I felt the water on my feet,a big wave was coming! Quickly,I ran for cover! Then I thought to myself "I'll die eventually"...but definitely not today! I walked back to my tent. Picked up my expensive LV bag,diamond watch and car keys and headed straight for my car!

   Well, I am what you can call a big girl! I have my own mansion at Victoria garden city, Lagos state. I have 3 cars, three of the latest Element, infinity jeep and a 2012 Aston Martin DB9 car for my every day activities! I shop at the best places in lagos. Dine with the high and mighty! I stand about 5 ft 10 inches tall, fair and very attractive. With a statistics of 36 26 42...yes you can say I have a 'killer' body. Frankly speaking,I would give monachi (MBGN) a run for her money. Sometimes I feel that my beauty is a burden to the world, Men drool and crave for me like No man's business. I remember when I went to the mall on sunday,I met a man who called himself ambassador Mike. He handed me a cheque of N100,000 n said "please take this little gift,I wanna tell God I saw and blessed an angel today"... Well,that didn't make sense at all... But I at least took the money!

   Currently I am jobless n have no source of income except my multi millionaire boyfriend John...Doctor john Attebasium! John and I met at a friends party about 3 years ago and we instantly connected. I don't really know if it was love...but I was really attracted to him! He wasn't this rich when I met him. At that time he was just an ambitious university graduate. He worked, I prayed and pulled a few strings here and there! Today,I can say my boyfriend is one of the rich big boys in lagos. We used to be happy and we had all we ever wanted. All!!!

  Until this morning... I was in the kitchen trying to make breakfast. "Shade, shade" he called! I answered with so much excitement...finally the man of my dreams is up! I removed the pink apron I had on and adjusted my brown see-through night wear. "Baby am coming"...I yelled. I got to the bed room... And there he was,my reason for living. "Baby there is something I want to tell you" he said. I noticed the look on his face! It was filled with guilt! His beautiful brown eyes had changed. I moved closer... "Baby,what's the problem...you don't look so good"...I said. A part of me felt I could calm him down with a hug. He loves holding me tight when he is nervous. I moved even closer. I noticed his mood had changed... He stared at my cleavage with so much desire in his eyes! "Yes,it worked"... I thought to myself! Though I wondered what he wanted to say... I honored his urge. He ran his hands down my chest. Slowly undoing my buttons. He stared at me with so much desire and a bit of confusion. I pulled him closer and placed a kiss on his lips. He returned it wit a hot french kiss and ran his hands all over my body. Leaving me moaning and groaning for him. Slowly, he laid me down and made sweet love to me!

   I woke up after a long sleep and found a note on the pillow. "Baby...john where are you"...I called. I dint hear any answer so I assumed he had left for work! I picked the note in excitement. John loves writing...so I thought he probably left me a romantic note. "What??!!!"...I screamed! The note read "BABY, I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU BUT MY OTHER GIRLFRIEND IS PREGNANT AND WE ARE GETTING MARRIED NEXT WEEKEND! I didn't mean for things to end like this. I give you the house and you can keep your cars. Ask me for anything and I'll always provide your needs. I am guessing you shouldn't be surprised since you know her already....Please be happy,your baby...JOHN"! Confusion clouded my mind... I got lost in my thoughts! Why did he decide to marry her? Is it because she's pregnant? But I got pregnant three times... Why didn't he marry me? Why did he pick that low life over me? "I am the best thing that can ever happen to any man"...I thought to myself! Tears rolled down my eyes... I don't want the money nor material things! I love him! "I'd rather die than face the humiliation"... I said! I got up... Dressed up... Took my car keys and headed for bar beach. I wasn't really sure of what was going on in my head but I knew that I couldn't take it.... 

To be continued. 

Written by Mo

Edited by: @unilagAmebor 

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LEAVE THE CHARMING....JUST GIVE ME A PRINCE 2

DISCLAIMER!!!!!! ALL Characters were made Up
Uncle did not stop!!!...
It was on a sunday morning. Aunty ronke woke me up around 4am... She said I had to prepare for church. "Church??!! But aunty service doesn't start until 8am...its a little too early to prepare for church now"...I said!!! "Ronke Ronke!!!Where are you, I am going to put an end to this madness"...said the thick voice! It was Uncle. Immediately, I turned on the light... "Omg!!! Aunty what did that man do to you?" Her face was swollen...obviously,that beast she called her husband had beat her Up! "Aunty,why do u put up with this man? You are rich and well respected...why do u let him treat you like a slave?"...I said angrily!!! I just could not take it! Aunty looked at me and smiles! I couldn't place it! "Aunty,What's funny?...dis man will kill you before your time". "Chi,You can't understand" ...she said!
"Ronke where is the document...I have a right to that house too"...He said! Aunty ronke got up in anger...n said "which house,DID YOUR FATHER GIVE ME ANY MONEY? What do you want from me again? I can not let you ruin my life!!! I just can't". I paused for a while. I really dint know what to do. I remember that aunty ronke spoke highly of her husband... What happened all of a sudden??? I was still thinking when I heard uncles voice again! "Get up,you stupid woman...I am not in the mood for your fainting games". She laid on the floor totally breathless!... "Uncle what have you done...Aunty aunty aunty oooo...ewoooooooo...uncle you have killed her.....somebody help Us oooo"...Before I knew it...He ran away! I had to rush her to the hospital all by myself!
That was how we lost aunty ronke! She told me she had to get married because her parents wanted her to. She was under a lot of pressure...so she had to settle for the available man! She often told me that he wasn't like that from the start! He just changed after marriage! Personally,I don't think that marriage is an institution to be rushed into! ...And mama knows all this ooo....so why is she disturbing me?! I want a prince charming and I know he will come. A man that will understand me... But if he doesn't come....I'll SETTLE FOR A PRINCE NOT AN ANIMAL! Abi what Would you do?????l

daddy's angel

DISCLAIMER!!! All characters were made Up!!!
I arrived on campus around 7am on thursday! I am very excited because its my 1st day in school. I did not know what to expect so kept my fingers crossed in expectation of positive results. I walked down the hall to the chemistry class. "Good day class"...I heard a loud voice say! Quickly, I ran and picked the chair beside me! "That must be mr bassie,the very wicked chemistry lecturer aunty kenny told me about!"... While the lecture was on,I felt a tap on my back. Immediately,I turned to see the idiot that wanted to ruin my perfectly ironed white shirt! "Sorry,that's my seat"...the girl with the tiny voice said. "Your seat?,but I dint meet anybody here nah"...I said! "That's my bag on the floor,u probably dropped it while sitting"...she said! With guilt on my face I looked at her n apologised! "Its ok dear,we can share"...she said! ...That marked the beginning of a wonderful friendship!
Princess and I became very close! So close that we even ended up staying in the same hostel! My name is yemi abiola. I am from a family of five! My mum is a petty trader n dad enjoys drinking and coming home late at night. My family is not what you can call a peaceful home. My parents fight as if the world depends on it! Well!!...if u look at things closely,U can say I am from a poor family! Unlike me,princess is an only child! Over pampered with love,care and a lot of money! She lost her mum when she was 6. She often told me that wasn't easy for her dad because he loved her so much! Her dad promised to never marry another woman to avoid hatred or maltreatment! Princess and her dad are so close! He does everything for her! Sometimes I even envy her...I wish my dad could love me like that!
Year one days were very hard...I couldn't afford to do anything! No money for food..let alone books! Thank God for princess in my life! Well,it was more like trade by barter because princess is what you can call a typical olodo! Lol!!!! I help her with her assignments,tests n all... And she feeds me! Well... I know you'll think am a shame less person...but I don't have any choice! As the years passed by,we became closer n closer! Actually, she even refered to me as her bestie!!!
One day, while I was doing my daily chores. Princess rushed in... Yemi yemi yemi!!!! "What is it,why are you screaming my name as if you've seen a ghost"...I said! I noticed the look on her face. She looked very sad. "Princess what is it? Don't tell me you caught that stupid kunle with another girl again"...I said. She looked at me. Her eyes were so red! As red as iya kalid's fresh zobo! I could sense that she had been crying. "Girlfriend,U know that that stupid boy doesn't deserve you. That boy wey be like burnt offering. Babe,you dey fall my hand oooo"...I said. "IT's DADDY"...she said! "Ehn Daddy,what's wrong with him?"... For a while,I imagined that my education had come 2 an end. Princess' daddy is my major means of survival! He can't die on me now!!!!! NO way!! "Can you imagine that daddy wants to marry another wife"...she said!! Gosh!!!! Relief!!!! That was the only feeling I had!! "That's good news na...you no want make your papa chop life???"... I asked! She looked at me wit so much anger. "What do you mean by that?...chop which life? He promised to never leave me...To always love me...and never let any other woman come between Us".
I just started laughing...."Omo daddy"...I said! "Its a normal thing...he needs somebody to do other things with. Don't worry, am sure she's a nice woman"...I said! She looked at me n said..."I know you won't understand. its really complicated!!" "Omo,forget that side!!! Watin you go chop" I asked. "Yemi, YOU DON'T SEEM TO UNDERSTAND...daddy is my lover. he's my first and only. Why does he want to leave me now? Am I not Good enough for him" "EHN!!!! Mogbe"....I jumped out of my seat!!! "What did u just say????? Your lover"..... "ehn"."It all started when my mum died"...she said.
TO BE CONTINUED

TORN ....2

Wummmm….I ran as fast as my legs could carry me…for a while,I wondered why I dint represent nigeria at the Olympics. I kept running…I still cannot remember how I made it to the ground floor without the elevator. I know I am strong…but never realized the twenty-sixth floor was not so far from the ground. Ooh… I stopped for a while to see if wale was running after me…maybe trying to say he is sorry. Disappointed, I turned back and continued… I couldn’t really explain why…but I just kept running. Hot tears rushed down my checks…how can wale sleep with his cousin? Why dint he chase me? Where did our love affair go wrong? I kept crying…yelling at the top of my voice as I ran like a mad woman.

 Oyingbo oyingbo…oyingbo…it was the voice of a bus conductor…I rushed in with immediate effect…I had to leave…to get home and continue crying… NO WONDER HE DINT INTRODUCE ME TO HIS FAMILY MEMBERS…HE WAS PLAYING ME…WHY DINT I NOTICE? I AM SUCH A FOOL…It took me about 10minutes to realized that my house was in park view estate, ikoyi … I mean, why did I board oyingbo bus from obalande…why did I even board a bus in the first place…after all, I had a car. Owa ooo…I screamed at the conductor. “owa kee…aunty you want make lastma catch me? Abeg abeg,no put san-san for my garri ooo… I no want fashola trouble”…he said. “whats my business…just let me out”…

  

“can you hear me?”…the very smooth and gentle voice asked. I opened my eyes and I noticed I was in a small room…the room was painted in white. I also noticed that the man with the gentle voice wore a white garment. Instantly I screamed, “am I in heaven?”… “haaaaaaaaaah… the man laughed…. “heaven?... why would you think you are in heaven? “haaaaaaah>>>he laughed again… “am sorry to disappoint you but you are in Merryfad hospital…your card here says you fell from a moving bus into a deep gutter  and hit your head. Can you feel any pain around your neck?”… ooooh, it clicked…I must have forced my way out of the moving bus… my god, what was I thinking…what was I even doing in the bus?… the gentle man looked at me and said “I am the doctor incharge of this ward…so you can say I am your doctor…you can call me dewale…doctor wale”. Wale wale wale…that name rang a bell…before I knew it, I had pounced on him like an angry eagle that had to avenge her dead eaglet…I was literarily going to kill him…but the sharp pain I felt on my right knee stopped me. Ok ok, make I no lie…his muscular, big and firm hands held me back.

I wasn’t sure why I attacked him…but I knew the name wale influenced the anger…why was I angry?.. who is wale? I thought about it for a while until the doctor…who dint sound so gentle anymore…called the nurses… and before I knew it…I had dosed off. Doctor dewale helped me in so many ways…he helped me through my recovery stage. Dewale and I became very close friends…he told me how he lost his wife to breast cancer…how helping helpless people like me was the only way he could get over their 6months old marriage. Wale had a lot to say about himself…but I dint. I couldn’t remember anything…just that his name brought me a lot of pain. Soon… I developed feelings for him… I mean…why wouldn’t  i? when he was tall, dark and very handsome… are doctors really allowed to look dis good? wale was just so kind to me…soooo caring…he even offered to give me a room in his house since I had no where to go…I gladly accepted.

Its all coming back to me… you are him…I mean…his twin…
TO BE CONTINUED...NEXTWEEK TUESDAY...

LEAVE THE CHARMING...JUST GIVE ME A PRINCE

 DISCLAIMER ; ALL CHARACTERS WERE MADE UP...

The pressure to get married is just too high… will I create a man that’ll fit my list by myself ? Should I turn into a desperate spinster because my parents want me to get married? What is it about marriage anyways? Is it really worth it? Those were the questions I asked mama when she called me to her usual ‘round table conference’ on this husband issue… “mother, marriage is not for everyone…I’ll be just fine”…those were my exact words before I stormed outta the living room…I am Chineye Amuzu…MD/CEO CHII Oil and Gas ltd…I am an entrepreneur…a successful one at that. I am 29 years old and will turn 30 next month. I’ve never really had luck with men. Most of them seem to be more interested in what I’ve got to offer in bed than what’s in my head… my general assumption is that all men are players…so why waste my time on the so called love when I could make millions with the same time. Next week Saturday is Annene’s wedding…my baby sister . I tried to talk her out of it but she seemed lost. Lost in what she called… love. Tufiakua… olorun maje… love my foot. I don’t believe in fairy tales…at least…not anymore. I mean, why should i? What is there to gain? I’ll just end up with a broken heart. As for me, love and marriage is a NO NO.

“UNCLE PLEASE…UNCLE PLEASE…UNCLE…UN…UNC…”…uncle wouldn’t stop. He just wouldn’t…

 Growing up, for me, was not very easy. My father died when I was eight years old. He left my poor mother with 2 daughters. I happened to be the first girl. Anny, my sister was just about 2years old at the time. Life got harder by the day, we couldn’t survive. I hawked Garri from Monday to Monday...I couldn’t go to school… The suffering just had to end. Months later, GOD sent our saviour…Aunty ronke… Aunty ronke was my mums school daughter back in Jubril martins school, Lagos. She saved us… and took me in. At the time, She was the DVC of The federal university of Technology, Owerri. She offered me an admission to study petroleum engineering… In my third year, I met Micheal.  Micheal was perfect… he had the right words…always knew what to say. Well, to cut the long story short… I lost my virginity to him. I can still remember how he held me…oh micky”… well… it dint end well after all… Then,there was yemi, Thomas, emmamuel, chidi… I can go on and on… All of them… infact, all men… lying bastards.

I lived in the staff quarters with aunty ronke for over 4years… life was good… until he showed up. I heard different stories about him. She often bored me with how romantic her husband was. How he bought her a BMW as an engagement gift. How beautiful their wedding was. In her words; “when dele comes back from Canada, you have to move to the school hostel”. Well I was really indifferent about that until I met him. The so called prince charming stood about 4ft tall…very short man. For a while, I wondered why my beautiful aunt settled for a dwarf…TAAAAAA… Uncle dele wasn’t as sweet and caring as my aunt said he was. I mean, the man nags about… just about everything… they constantly argued… the dining table arrangement even caused a fight once. No wonder she wanted me to go to my hostel…Eweeeee…where did the whole paris gist come from na? looooool… oh,I know… her dreams… where her prince charming existed. Well, if u ask me, love is for children…twsch…

Nothing really prepared me for what was gonna happen… poor aunty ronke…

MY QUESTION IS, DOES THE PERFECT MAN EXIST? WHY WAS AUNTY RONKE LYING ABOUT HER HUSBAND? DO YOU THINK I HAVE ENOUGH REASON TO DECIDE NEVER TO MARRY?

TO BE CONTINUED NEXT WEEK WEDNESDAY...

TORN

Ohh… my head, that was all I could say. My heart was beating fast…faster than globacom bolt’s internet service. Was I dreaming… could it be real???? Shade Shade Shade is that you? Why shade…why? I looked around the small room…the brown leather chair we bought last year December was still there…so was the silk bed sheet he bought on valentine’s day? Wale, how could you?

 It all started in February 2008, “ Good evening miss… can I help you?”…he asked. His voice, deep and very manly… He stood about 6ft 2inches tall, beautiful brown eyes, dark and definitely straight from my dreams. I was shopping with my friends at city mall ,onikan, When I spotted him… he was wearing a black suit… his body was from outta space… he had beautiful pink lips….ahhhhhhh…. “oh hi,” I said. “I am Ola…Olanike Daniels. You look familiar, have we met before?” …he smiled and said “no I don’t  think so,but  I’d like to get to know you… hi, am wale adeniyi”… And that was it, the beginning of a love affair. We were the perfect couple… the perfect pair. Wale thought me a lot of things…gave me all the things I desired. To me, he was the perfect man…my perfect man. Things started to heat up when wale asked me to marry him…ahhhh … it was a beautiful experience. He made me feel like a queen…like he owned the world and he was ready give it to me…

“wale , how could you do this to me… what did I do? Why wale…why…”. All I could think of were the seven abortions I had… my grand-fathers land that I sold to sponsor his masters degree in the UK… How did I become the fool?  How? Why did I not notice? I met shade last year at the Owade’s end of the year party… wale told me she was his cousin. That explained why they had the same surname… Adeniyi.  Shade graduated from unilag and was at that time searching for a job… as a good sister in law to-be,I generously offered her a job at my late dads firm…after al… jones n jones ltd needed a general manager.  Shade and I became instant friends… we were so close,I asked her to be my chief brides maid. She gladly accepted….

So how,  why???? Too many questions running through my mind… what is shade doing in my fiancés bed?WHAT DO YOU THINK WAS GOING ON? WHAT ARE THE SIGNS A WOMAN SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR?

TO BE CONTINUED NEXT WEEK TUESDAY...