20 THINGS TO DO WHILE WAITING FOR MR RIGHT...

1.Develop a relationship with God. You need to improve on your spiritual life. This will not only portray you as a good person, it will improve your relationship with your maker.

2.Develop your cooking skills. It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his tommy. You need to familiarise yourself with the kitchen.

3.Develop your inter relationship with people. You have to learn to be people friendly. Learn how to start conversations and keep conversations going.

4.Create a list of all the qualities you want in your man. If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything. NB; try as much as possible to create a realistic list. Tall, dark, handsome, rich, God fearing, gentle etc… girl please, do you wanna marry Jesus?

5.Work on yourself. Do daily, weekly, monthly workout. You need to be fit. Understand you shape and work on it.

6.Be who you want to attract. If you want a good man, you have to be a good woman. Do not forget, you are who you attract.

7.Don’t look so desperate. Men can notice these things. Once you place yourself as being desperate, the tables will turn. He will notice this and may take advantage.

8.Be independent. Get a job. Do something with your life. Don’t just sit around waiting for mr right to come and pay all your bills. Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying he wont cater for you… but common… the man is not your father.

9.Always look good. Don’t forget that men are attracted by good looks. You need to get his attention with your looks before you can show your charming personality. NB; DON’T OVER DO IT. Tone down on the skimpy outfits. Do not show too much skin. Wear something that will say “I’m ready but not desperate”.

10.Know something about everything. You gatta be smart. Know something about what men like to talk about. Football, cars, sports in general, stock exchange, fashion, hair, music, movies… etc. who knows, mr right might be a movie lover.

11.Love yourself. Love your body, your skin, your attitude, love everything about yourself. Try and forget about your insecurities…

12.Develop self confidence. Self confidence is one of a woman’s best quality. Talk with confidence, walk with confidence… don’t be shy to express yourself. Note that confidence is not arrogance.

13.Carry yourself with poise and charisma. You are a lady. You have to walk like one.

14.Portray yourself has a wife material. You don’t have to say you are a good woman… make people say it for you. Be anything but lazy. You don’t have to fake it… practice makes perfect. Create the impression that you’ll be faithful, loyal and honest.

15.Always wear a smile. Whether you wanna believe it or not, your smile is your best asset. Work on the smile that fits your face. Don’t over do it please. Just learn to smile.

16.Don’t ever talk about your ex. EVER. You don’t wanna create the impression that men use and dump you.

17.Be beautiful. Do all you can to look attractive. Please, wearing make up is not a crime. Buy things that’ll improve your beauty.

18.Understand that you are beautiful as you are. I want you to know that there is somebody for everybody. Its ok to be dark… you don’t really need to bleach. Its ok to be short… just carry yourself with the needed charisma. Its ok to be chubby… just wear things that’ll compliment your shape. Its ok to be skinny… its really ok to be you

19.Be you. You need to understand that you have to be yourself

20.Be sociable. Go out… meet people. Go places… increase your options

My dear, you have to know that not all women will be wives. Determine what you wanna be NOW. He doesn’t have to be rich now… you should learn how to spot potentials. Help him grow. You also need to understand that you have to marry your friend.
Don’t forget to holla… girl talk

OLANREWAJU TOYOSI

@motource on twitter

Missmodiva01@gmail.com